5 thoughts on “What gift should I prepare for my mother -in -law's relatives for the first New Year?”
Alvin
Personal opinion: The practicality of gifts can be placed backwards, and the focus should be on the face. of course, this is mainly for universal situations. If the kind of mother -in -law is particularly good, and then you will not have any feelings when you go empty -handed. It is estimated that we don't need to discuss this problem.
has a misunderstanding. Some girls may feel that they are going to my in -laws for the first time, and they are still guests, so there is no need to prepare any gifts. But in fact, this idea is wrong. Now that you have gone to your wife's house, whether you are married or not married, you actually need to pay attention to it.
Is when my sister (aunt's daughter) was in love before, at that time she and her boyfriend were not married, which was equivalent to seeing the parents of the man. The fruit went.
This, the man's parents stuffed her a thick red envelope when they went out. Although it said, this shows that the future in -laws recognize themselves, but on the other hand, it also highlights my sister's unhappy. The comparison of the two parties pays attention to the degree of importance, and will feel that girls do not know the courtesy, and even affect the impression of her in -laws (my aunt and my mother said so). Therefore, personally, if you do n’t get married, you just need a good impression that you need to prepare a gift. If you are already married, since you are all your own family, you do n’t have to search for it. The first sense of ritual should be.
Therefore, the following gift list is for your reference:
(1) Grandpa and grandma n general, wine and tea, always One is liked by grandpa. Therefore, Grandpa's gift is very easy to choose. If you like to drink, you can buy relatively well -known. The packaging is good and the atmospheric wine is sufficient (preferably the gift box, it seems to be high). If it is tea, it is easier, just buy the famous tea gift box.
Relative to speaking, grandma's gift is not so easy to choose. Personally, I think that the bracelet can be considered. The price is mainly depends on personal affordability. It must be packed and looks gorgeous. (2) Parents (and the corresponding aunts aunts) The gifts for giving their husbands and parents can be more expensive, and gifts from other relatives can be relatively civilian. Generally speaking, you can send your mother -in -law skin care products (repeated reminders, if the mother -in -law knows it, you must buy brand goods; if the mother -in -law does not care about skin care, then choose a relatively atmospheric). If your mother -in -law does not need skin care, you can also consider sending bracelets, but unlike grandma, it is generally sent to give grandma to choose jade and give her mother -in -law to choose money. Is for her husband's father, if you smoke, you can buy precious smoke. If you don't smoke, you can consider some healthy things, such as health products. In addition, you can also buy warm wool sweaters for the father -in -law. Mother -in -law can buy warm scarves, and the father -in -law can send sweaters, which is also very good. Is for my peers, I personally think that fruit baskets and snack gift boxes, milk is actually enough. If there are children in the home, you can buy another toy gift package.
(3) Brother and sister In general, sending my sister can send lipstick, bag, and skirt. However, it should be noted that you must ask your husband clearly. For example, what color numbers like lipstick and what styles you like in bags and skirts, otherwise it will be embarrassing if you step on the thunder. As for my brother, you can consider sending a table. (4) Brothers and sisters If the younger brother and sister are relatively small, then girls can buy Barbie doll suits, boys can send Lego toys. However, most of the children are mature earlier, so if you send them a counseling information to them hahahaha (joking). If you are relatively older, such as junior high school, you can consider sending them electronic products, such as bracelets, even tablets, and mobile phones.
If you have already worked in college or even work, you can consider sending red and perfumes for girls. If you are a boy, you can consider sending basketball shoes. (5) Little nephew daughter M: This is generally young, so you can consider sending the bracelet worn by the child. It is not very expensive, such as silver, the point is that the meaning is better. The last words, what needs to be reminded is that no matter what gifts are delivered, those who can pack them should be packed as much as possible. If you have a big gift package, you will not buy a bulk yourself.
Because it is the first time to go to my mother -in -law's house for the New Year, if the economic situation is not very rich, the gifts given to the two or three of the three elements of the three elements of the two or three elements are good. For example, you know you know The favorite items of relatives of my mother -in -law, specialty products of their hometown or a well -known regional specialty product, clothing, etc. I. When I went to my in -laws for the first time for the New Year, because I had less with relatives of my in -laws, and I had less understanding each other, and it was not the same province and cities. The gift package (the gift package with tableware and cooking methods inside) Mailing to the elder brother's house one by one in this way. When we go back on vacation, when we visit relatives, bring each family in the past. At the same time as convenience, the gifts of each family are also average. Then I will introduce it to the specialties of their own hometown. They will be brought to the relatives to taste it. The intimacy and mind can be basically in place. Specialty. . My friend and I got married in the same year. They were also the New Year after the year after marriage. She was more familiar with most relatives of her in -laws. Basically, I bought it based on her needs and preferences. I bought new clothes for the elders who saved more, giving the elders who like to drink tea with special tea, and sending good wine to the elders. Naturally, there are more love. Therefore, what you need is to combine yourself and the relatives of your in -laws, and choose their needs and favorite gifts on the basis of the relatively average price of gift giving gifts. If we do n’t understand, choose the insurance method and send some commonly used popular gift packages or home -made gift packages for relatives! The gift packages for relatives are commonly used for them, which are suitable for family members with more children at home; health nutritional gift packages, suitable for the addition of more elderly people at home; milk candy gift package, which is relatively common. Regarding the specialty of the hometown, it is necessary to exclude daily unrealistic. For example, some hometown specialties are musical instruments, celebrities' poems, medicinal materials, etc., which are not suitable for giving gifts for the New Year. Tea, silk scarves, characteristic accessories, etc. It about the first New Year to go to my in -laws' house for the first time, and other precautions for gifts to relatives are: Is do n’t want to prepare some because of the first time, take care of it, according to your own economic situation, you should send it to your own economic situation. Just send relatives to relatives; The price of gifts for relatives must be relatively average. If you mind your minds, you say that you don't value him, it is embarrassing; Some say that the greetings of relatives must be in place, shout more, laugh more, and talk more about the opportunity. This is more important than gifts.
For the first time when a girl went to her in -laws, what gifts should she prepare for relatives of her in -laws? The answer does not need to prepare any gifts, because at this time the relationship between the girl and her in -laws has not been completely determined, and did not marry the boy. Therefore, the girl went to her in -laws for the first time, and she was placed in the position of the guests. If you have married the man, then the position becomes the identity of the hostess. The position of the in -laws is called the daughter -in -law. The statement here should be to return to the husband's house. Back to the New Year's Eve] Pay attention to the focus of [Go] and [Back], and use the word "Go], which belongs to the customer identity. For example: I [Go] today you eat. Explain that I am a guest as a guest. If you use the word, the meaning changes: I will go to your house to eat today. Do you feel wrong, because I did n’t live in your house, nor is it the owner of your family. The reason why I have to bite the text here and the relationship between the words and chewing words is to let everyone figure out that the girl and her in -laws are not married yet, so she goes to her in -laws as a guest. Since she is a guest. If you go, there is no need to give gifts to the relatives of the in -laws. The relatives of the in -laws go to the girl's mother -in -law's identity. Therefore, there is no reason why there are no guests to give gifts to the guests.
n my little cousin was 23 years old last year. I played a boyfriend in the unit. Remember last year During the Spring Festival, the boyfriend's house invited the little cousin to go to their house for the New Year. At first, the little cousin felt embarrassed and unwilling to go. She was afraid she did not know how to face the future in -laws and their relatives. I didn't agree, and then she told me this matter and wanted me to give her an idea. I told her: "If you plan to marry this boy, then you should go. If you do n’t go, it seems that you are very arrogant. In the future, you will be prone to gap after getting married, and misunderstandings. As the saying goes, ugly daughter -in -law always sees the in -laws, let alone you are not ugly, what are you afraid of! After listening to me, my cousin disappeared, dispelled all the concerns, and decided to go to the in -laws' house for the New Year, but after two days, she suddenly found me and asked me, "Then I need to give his dad to his dad for the New Year's New Year. What gifts are you prepared, and so many relatives in their family, what gifts do I prepare? " I listened to the cousin's question, haha laughed:" You first go to the in -laws' house for the New Year, you can give men for men, you can give men for men, you can give men for men, you can give men for men. Friends' parents buy some sugar, tobacco and alcohol, etc., you can also ask your boyfriend what your parents have any hobbies. For example, your mother -in -law likes to play badminton, you can send her a pair of rackets, or just send some jewelry and the like , Earrings, the most suitable, economical and affordable. As for the relatives of their family, there is no need to give gifts, because you go to the New Year's Eve, you are also guests. The relatives of their family also belong to their homes. What does the truth? " This, my cousin listened to me, Maose was open, so last year, she went to her boyfriend's house to celebrate the New Year.
In the first time the girl went to her in -laws' house for the first time, without having to prepare gifts for relatives of my in -laws . identity It is a guest, and the relatives of the in -laws are also guests from the in -laws, so there is no reason why guests give gifts to guests.
. The uncertainty of the marriage relationship The marriage relationship between girls and the boy is not sure, that is, she has not married yet. The relatives of the in -laws gave gifts, so they left the money in the water. If they broke up with the man in the future, the gifts sent out cannot be returned.
. Customs Cope according to the customs of our Chongqing City, girls go to my in -laws for the first time for the Chinese New Year, and there is no need for girls to give gifts at all. On the contrary, the man's family’s family’s Elders must express their sincerity to girls. In the reason, the first time the girl went to her in -laws to celebrate the New Year, they went to collect gifts and collect red envelopes instead of giving gifts.
The first time the girl went to my wife's house for the first time, she did not need to give gifts to her in -laws, nor did they need to give gifts to relatives in her in -laws. And gift. So for the first time, the girl went to her in -laws to celebrate the gift for the first time, instead of giving gifts.
There are still many choices, but no matter what you bring, your heart must be in place. This I use my sister and my brother -in -law to return to my mother's house for your reference. First of all, the situation of our family is that my grandpa and dad like to drink and smoke. But two people do not pursue any famous wine, as long as they are wine. My grandma and mother have no special hobbies. I usually like to eat and drink. Then I was an old man, and I said that I was not interested in the gift of gifts a few hundred years ago, so I can ignore me. The on this situation, if my brother -in -law comes, the tobacco and alcohol must be indispensable. After all, I have to please my grandfather and his old man (that is, my father). Generally speaking, the cigarettes they buy will be better. If you wine, you will choose the packaging. Occasionally, I will bring some tea, because my grandpa also drinks tea. then milk and fruit, almost every year. Because our family does not pursue a good sense of ritual or the like, they generally do not buy fruit baskets. They all go to the supermarket to buy some fruits that look fresh and better. Like apples, kiwi, bananas, and dragon fruit are some good choices. When my sister and my brother -in -law were just married, I would also buy some health products for my parents. It doesn't matter if there is any effect, anyway, the heart is here. Later, after a long time of marriage, these virtuals were not rectified. Now they are basically available to buy oil and rice. Coupled with my grandma, they may not like vegetable oil, and sometimes they also bring some lard and the like. In the last gift boxes, such as the more exquisite packaging biscuits, or the hodgepodge of the supermarket flickering. The role of these things may be to make the gift a little more years old, that's all. There is something that brought from my own side. Because my sister is married, she will bring some local characteristics, such as beer crisp. In addition to these, you will also buy some meat, seafood, and even vegetables. Although there will be a lot of big fish and meat in every family during the New Year, you have not bought it if you buy it. In addition, the two of them were in Qingdao, so they basically brought them back in the Chinese New Year. personally think, if you are just married, you can buy a little more expensive thing. After all, it is the first year, and the face is still needed. But if you have been married for a few years, you do n’t have to pursue these virtual things. In fact, as long as two people return to the mother's house in the New Year, the maiden family is already very happy. And now that they are already satisfied, they will be very happy to buy whatever ~
For the first time to celebrate the New Year, there can be a variety of gifts prepared for relatives of my mother -in -law, depending on your economic strength. The cheap ones are ordinary tonics, and the expensive ones are bird's nest.
Personal opinion: The practicality of gifts can be placed backwards, and the focus should be on the face.
of course, this is mainly for universal situations. If the kind of mother -in -law is particularly good, and then you will not have any feelings when you go empty -handed. It is estimated that we don't need to discuss this problem.
has a misunderstanding. Some girls may feel that they are going to my in -laws for the first time, and they are still guests, so there is no need to prepare any gifts. But in fact, this idea is wrong. Now that you have gone to your wife's house, whether you are married or not married, you actually need to pay attention to it.
Is when my sister (aunt's daughter) was in love before, at that time she and her boyfriend were not married, which was equivalent to seeing the parents of the man. The fruit went.
This, the man's parents stuffed her a thick red envelope when they went out. Although it said, this shows that the future in -laws recognize themselves, but on the other hand, it also highlights my sister's unhappy.
The comparison of the two parties pays attention to the degree of importance, and will feel that girls do not know the courtesy, and even affect the impression of her in -laws (my aunt and my mother said so). Therefore, personally, if you do n’t get married, you just need a good impression that you need to prepare a gift. If you are already married, since you are all your own family, you do n’t have to search for it. The first sense of ritual should be.
Therefore, the following gift list is for your reference:
(1) Grandpa and grandma n general, wine and tea, always One is liked by grandpa. Therefore, Grandpa's gift is very easy to choose. If you like to drink, you can buy relatively well -known. The packaging is good and the atmospheric wine is sufficient (preferably the gift box, it seems to be high). If it is tea, it is easier, just buy the famous tea gift box.
Relative to speaking, grandma's gift is not so easy to choose. Personally, I think that the bracelet can be considered. The price is mainly depends on personal affordability. It must be packed and looks gorgeous.
(2) Parents (and the corresponding aunts aunts)
The gifts for giving their husbands and parents can be more expensive, and gifts from other relatives can be relatively civilian. Generally speaking, you can send your mother -in -law skin care products (repeated reminders, if the mother -in -law knows it, you must buy brand goods; if the mother -in -law does not care about skin care, then choose a relatively atmospheric). If your mother -in -law does not need skin care, you can also consider sending bracelets, but unlike grandma, it is generally sent to give grandma to choose jade and give her mother -in -law to choose money.
Is for her husband's father, if you smoke, you can buy precious smoke. If you don't smoke, you can consider some healthy things, such as health products.
In addition, you can also buy warm wool sweaters for the father -in -law. Mother -in -law can buy warm scarves, and the father -in -law can send sweaters, which is also very good.
Is for my peers, I personally think that fruit baskets and snack gift boxes, milk is actually enough. If there are children in the home, you can buy another toy gift package.
(3) Brother and sister
In general, sending my sister can send lipstick, bag, and skirt. However, it should be noted that you must ask your husband clearly. For example, what color numbers like lipstick and what styles you like in bags and skirts, otherwise it will be embarrassing if you step on the thunder. As for my brother, you can consider sending a table.
(4) Brothers and sisters
If the younger brother and sister are relatively small, then girls can buy Barbie doll suits, boys can send Lego toys. However, most of the children are mature earlier, so if you send them a counseling information to them hahahaha (joking).
If you are relatively older, such as junior high school, you can consider sending them electronic products, such as bracelets, even tablets, and mobile phones.
If you have already worked in college or even work, you can consider sending red and perfumes for girls. If you are a boy, you can consider sending basketball shoes.
(5) Little nephew daughter
M: This is generally young, so you can consider sending the bracelet worn by the child. It is not very expensive, such as silver, the point is that the meaning is better.
The last words, what needs to be reminded is that no matter what gifts are delivered, those who can pack them should be packed as much as possible. If you have a big gift package, you will not buy a bulk yourself.
Because it is the first time to go to my mother -in -law's house for the New Year, if the economic situation is not very rich, the gifts given to the two or three of the three elements of the three elements of the two or three elements are good. For example, you know you know The favorite items of relatives of my mother -in -law, specialty products of their hometown or a well -known regional specialty product, clothing, etc.
I. When I went to my in -laws for the first time for the New Year, because I had less with relatives of my in -laws, and I had less understanding each other, and it was not the same province and cities. The gift package (the gift package with tableware and cooking methods inside) Mailing to the elder brother's house one by one in this way. When we go back on vacation, when we visit relatives, bring each family in the past. At the same time as convenience, the gifts of each family are also average. Then I will introduce it to the specialties of their own hometown. They will be brought to the relatives to taste it. The intimacy and mind can be basically in place. Specialty.
. My friend and I got married in the same year. They were also the New Year after the year after marriage. She was more familiar with most relatives of her in -laws. Basically, I bought it based on her needs and preferences. I bought new clothes for the elders who saved more, giving the elders who like to drink tea with special tea, and sending good wine to the elders. Naturally, there are more love.
Therefore, what you need is to combine yourself and the relatives of your in -laws, and choose their needs and favorite gifts on the basis of the relatively average price of gift giving gifts. If we do n’t understand, choose the insurance method and send some commonly used popular gift packages or home -made gift packages for relatives!
The gift packages for relatives are commonly used for them, which are suitable for family members with more children at home; health nutritional gift packages, suitable for the addition of more elderly people at home; milk candy gift package, which is relatively common. Regarding the specialty of the hometown, it is necessary to exclude daily unrealistic. For example, some hometown specialties are musical instruments, celebrities' poems, medicinal materials, etc., which are not suitable for giving gifts for the New Year. Tea, silk scarves, characteristic accessories, etc.
It about the first New Year to go to my in -laws' house for the first time, and other precautions for gifts to relatives are:
Is do n’t want to prepare some because of the first time, take care of it, according to your own economic situation, you should send it to your own economic situation. Just send relatives to relatives;
The price of gifts for relatives must be relatively average. If you mind your minds, you say that you don't value him, it is embarrassing; Some say that the greetings of relatives must be in place, shout more, laugh more, and talk more about the opportunity. This is more important than gifts.
For the first time when a girl went to her in -laws, what gifts should she prepare for relatives of her in -laws? The answer does not need to prepare any gifts, because at this time the relationship between the girl and her in -laws has not been completely determined, and did not marry the boy. Therefore, the girl went to her in -laws for the first time, and she was placed in the position of the guests. If you have married the man, then the position becomes the identity of the hostess. The position of the in -laws is called the daughter -in -law. The statement here should be to return to the husband's house. Back to the New Year's Eve] Pay attention to the focus of [Go] and [Back], and use the word "Go], which belongs to the customer identity. For example: I [Go] today you eat. Explain that I am a guest as a guest. If you use the word, the meaning changes: I will go to your house to eat today. Do you feel wrong, because I did n’t live in your house, nor is it the owner of your family. The reason why I have to bite the text here and the relationship between the words and chewing words is to let everyone figure out that the girl and her in -laws are not married yet, so she goes to her in -laws as a guest. Since she is a guest. If you go, there is no need to give gifts to the relatives of the in -laws. The relatives of the in -laws go to the girl's mother -in -law's identity. Therefore, there is no reason why there are no guests to give gifts to the guests.
n my little cousin was 23 years old last year. I played a boyfriend in the unit. Remember last year During the Spring Festival, the boyfriend's house invited the little cousin to go to their house for the New Year. At first, the little cousin felt embarrassed and unwilling to go. She was afraid she did not know how to face the future in -laws and their relatives. I didn't agree, and then she told me this matter and wanted me to give her an idea. I told her: "If you plan to marry this boy, then you should go. If you do n’t go, it seems that you are very arrogant. In the future, you will be prone to gap after getting married, and misunderstandings. As the saying goes, ugly daughter -in -law always sees the in -laws, let alone you are not ugly, what are you afraid of! After listening to me, my cousin disappeared, dispelled all the concerns, and decided to go to the in -laws' house for the New Year, but after two days, she suddenly found me and asked me, "Then I need to give his dad to his dad for the New Year's New Year. What gifts are you prepared, and so many relatives in their family, what gifts do I prepare? "
I listened to the cousin's question, haha laughed:" You first go to the in -laws' house for the New Year, you can give men for men, you can give men for men, you can give men for men, you can give men for men. Friends' parents buy some sugar, tobacco and alcohol, etc., you can also ask your boyfriend what your parents have any hobbies. For example, your mother -in -law likes to play badminton, you can send her a pair of rackets, or just send some jewelry and the like , Earrings, the most suitable, economical and affordable. As for the relatives of their family, there is no need to give gifts, because you go to the New Year's Eve, you are also guests. The relatives of their family also belong to their homes. What does the truth? "
This, my cousin listened to me, Maose was open, so last year, she went to her boyfriend's house to celebrate the New Year.
In the first time the girl went to her in -laws' house for the first time, without having to prepare gifts for relatives of my in -laws
. identity
It is a guest, and the relatives of the in -laws are also guests from the in -laws, so there is no reason why guests give gifts to guests.
. The uncertainty of the marriage relationship
The marriage relationship between girls and the boy is not sure, that is, she has not married yet. The relatives of the in -laws gave gifts, so they left the money in the water. If they broke up with the man in the future, the gifts sent out cannot be returned.
. Customs
Cope according to the customs of our Chongqing City, girls go to my in -laws for the first time for the Chinese New Year, and there is no need for girls to give gifts at all. On the contrary, the man's family’s family’s Elders must express their sincerity to girls. In the reason, the first time the girl went to her in -laws to celebrate the New Year, they went to collect gifts and collect red envelopes instead of giving gifts.
The first time the girl went to my wife's house for the first time, she did not need to give gifts to her in -laws, nor did they need to give gifts to relatives in her in -laws. And gift. So for the first time, the girl went to her in -laws to celebrate the gift for the first time, instead of giving gifts.
There are still many choices, but no matter what you bring, your heart must be in place.
This I use my sister and my brother -in -law to return to my mother's house for your reference.
First of all, the situation of our family is that my grandpa and dad like to drink and smoke. But two people do not pursue any famous wine, as long as they are wine. My grandma and mother have no special hobbies. I usually like to eat and drink. Then I was an old man, and I said that I was not interested in the gift of gifts a few hundred years ago, so I can ignore me.
The on this situation, if my brother -in -law comes, the tobacco and alcohol must be indispensable. After all, I have to please my grandfather and his old man (that is, my father). Generally speaking, the cigarettes they buy will be better. If you wine, you will choose the packaging. Occasionally, I will bring some tea, because my grandpa also drinks tea.
then milk and fruit, almost every year. Because our family does not pursue a good sense of ritual or the like, they generally do not buy fruit baskets. They all go to the supermarket to buy some fruits that look fresh and better. Like apples, kiwi, bananas, and dragon fruit are some good choices.
When my sister and my brother -in -law were just married, I would also buy some health products for my parents. It doesn't matter if there is any effect, anyway, the heart is here. Later, after a long time of marriage, these virtuals were not rectified. Now they are basically available to buy oil and rice. Coupled with my grandma, they may not like vegetable oil, and sometimes they also bring some lard and the like.
In the last gift boxes, such as the more exquisite packaging biscuits, or the hodgepodge of the supermarket flickering. The role of these things may be to make the gift a little more years old, that's all. There is something that brought from my own side. Because my sister is married, she will bring some local characteristics, such as beer crisp.
In addition to these, you will also buy some meat, seafood, and even vegetables. Although there will be a lot of big fish and meat in every family during the New Year, you have not bought it if you buy it. In addition, the two of them were in Qingdao, so they basically brought them back in the Chinese New Year.
personally think, if you are just married, you can buy a little more expensive thing. After all, it is the first year, and the face is still needed. But if you have been married for a few years, you do n’t have to pursue these virtual things.
In fact, as long as two people return to the mother's house in the New Year, the maiden family is already very happy. And now that they are already satisfied, they will be very happy to buy whatever ~
For the first time to celebrate the New Year, there can be a variety of gifts prepared for relatives of my mother -in -law, depending on your economic strength. The cheap ones are ordinary tonics, and the expensive ones are bird's nest.